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Hannah's avatar

Heartbreaking... I want to give them all a hug. I had it mild in comparison and still it did enough damage. I can't imagine how imprisoned they must have felt. I discovered who I am at 40 - so I can relate a bit.

But being married to a man ... *shudders*

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Duncanator🇨🇦❤️🇺🇲's avatar

I cried while reading this incredible piece. I feel like part of my story has been told as a lesbian who came out very late in life. From the depths of my soul, I thank you 🥹💕

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THE AfterCare Bear's avatar

This happens with queer males in the same fundamentalist settings. This too was my experience as a child and young adult. I’ve never felt more safe with a partner than I do now that I am living as authentically as I possibly can.

I’m sure this has been discussed over and over by now though. I’m glad that everyone’s past traumas etc. are getting seen and ultimately healed regardless of gender.

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A Writer’s Voice's avatar

Heartbreaking. This is an amazing piece!

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John saxon's avatar

Amazing beautiful and heartbreaking 💔 work sending lots of love to you and the other people in your work and also sending prayers and love to you all love 🥰 your family friend John from Australia xx ❤️❤️💜💜💙💙

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Ken's avatar

Reading this makes me feel a lot more impressed about the first lesbian I ever heard of: my stepfather's first wife. She divorced him in the early 90s after realizing her sexuality in rural north Florida and even ended up with custody of their two daughters for several years.

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