What is the point of this article? Conventionally attractive gay men are free to do chemsex orgies? This isn't news to anyone. I'm more interested in the stories of the fatties and uglies who get rejected from these parties because the gay community is shallow. It's nowhere near as deep as this guy suggests. There is no meaning to be found there.
30+ years of being clean and sober have taught me - drugs and sex are a dead-end street. Yup, I've led a sober and incredibly boring life for that long, but here's the thing. If I hadn't become sober, I'd be dead by now. Trying not to be judgmental because I've been there. Hoping the best for you, my friend.
Too bad I'm overaged for this kind of partying. I can understand how hard it is to even think about putting an end to the "hedonistic" fun of it. Sure one-on-one sexual experiences, or sober sex experiences must feel dull and boresome for quite a long time after "the afters".
More than shoes, wallet, or clothes, you might also have been stoled of the simple pleasures of life.
Hope I'll read your writings here or there in the future -until you're very, very old. You are a talented writer. Stay safe.
---Forgive my artificial english, I'm french. ---- Dommage que je sois trop âgé pour ce genre de fête. Je peux comprendre combien il est difficile même de penser à mettre fin au plaisir « hédoniste » de cela. Bien sûr, les expériences sexuelles en tête-à-tête, ou les expériences sexuelles sobres doivent sembler fades et ennuyeuses pendant un bon moment après les « after parties ».
Plus que les chaussures, le portefeuille ou les vêtements, tu as aussi peut-être été volé des plaisirs simples de la vie.
J'espère lire tes écrits ici ou là à l'avenir - jusqu'à ce que tu sois très, très vieux.
What is the point of this article? Conventionally attractive gay men are free to do chemsex orgies? This isn't news to anyone. I'm more interested in the stories of the fatties and uglies who get rejected from these parties because the gay community is shallow. It's nowhere near as deep as this guy suggests. There is no meaning to be found there.
30+ years of being clean and sober have taught me - drugs and sex are a dead-end street. Yup, I've led a sober and incredibly boring life for that long, but here's the thing. If I hadn't become sober, I'd be dead by now. Trying not to be judgmental because I've been there. Hoping the best for you, my friend.
Too bad I'm overaged for this kind of partying. I can understand how hard it is to even think about putting an end to the "hedonistic" fun of it. Sure one-on-one sexual experiences, or sober sex experiences must feel dull and boresome for quite a long time after "the afters".
More than shoes, wallet, or clothes, you might also have been stoled of the simple pleasures of life.
Hope I'll read your writings here or there in the future -until you're very, very old. You are a talented writer. Stay safe.
---Forgive my artificial english, I'm french. ---- Dommage que je sois trop âgé pour ce genre de fête. Je peux comprendre combien il est difficile même de penser à mettre fin au plaisir « hédoniste » de cela. Bien sûr, les expériences sexuelles en tête-à-tête, ou les expériences sexuelles sobres doivent sembler fades et ennuyeuses pendant un bon moment après les « after parties ».
Plus que les chaussures, le portefeuille ou les vêtements, tu as aussi peut-être été volé des plaisirs simples de la vie.
J'espère lire tes écrits ici ou là à l'avenir - jusqu'à ce que tu sois très, très vieux.
Tu es un écrivain talentueux.
Prends soin de toi.
Well written. Raw. Disturbing.